Quote: (01-23-2018 10:29 AM)General Stalin Wrote:
The only way a long term relationship can work for you with a girl who has poor relationship sensibilities is if you simply don't care. If you are still banging other girls but just like having this hot piece of ass to go home to and have on your arm at parties then that is the best mentality to have. She really sounds like a "she's not yours just your turn" kind of girl.
Agree with the don't care. Since halting the LTR with her I've banged 4 girls (recruited 3x FBs and when out and met a new girl at a bar). Definitely helps. For me, nothing helps more than time and a new emotional connection though.
Not interested in just having a hot piece of ass... but yeh it is tempting.
Definitely a "my turn" girl. Funny how suckered in I was: She was always very convincing in making me feel uniquely attractive and special to her... (she would monologue about it ad nauseum). I found some past text messages of hers showing that I am just one of many she has either invited to Japan (to either visit or live) or was willing to move country for. Jeeeeezus. Bullet dodged.