[Mufasa]

(01-15-2018 10:46 AM)Spaniard88 Wrote:  

(01-15-2018 09:16 AM)fitness2569 Wrote:  

To each their own I guess. I think it is best that each guy gauge the girl of interest on how to "properly" date her. Many girls would gladly enjoy the entertainment of being taken out three times. The sooner you bang a chick the better in my opinion. So i would push for the bang as quick as possible . However, if you see the girl needs a little more comfort then taking her out a few more times wouldn't hurt. If you want to just take every girl you would like to bang out 3 times you run the risk of being another one of her orbiters. With women it should be , Attract, Escalate , bang , then date[ maybe]. Strike when the iron is hot and with chicks the earlier the better

If you're banging on first encounters/dates, you're inevitably banging crazy.

Never bang crazy.

Now if you don't have assets yet and don't value your health, both physical and mental, then by all means, do as the proles do.

Otherwise, 2 or 3 date rule.

This adds a layer of protection to your assets, and it protects your health, both physical and mental, from unnecessary disturbances.

Also, you'll end up filtering for higher quality this way.

If that's not what you're after, then disregard.

What is "higher quality"? To me that just means go after hotter girls--that doesnt take 3 dates...
All girls are crazy.
This last year was a major confirmation that most girls have nothing to bring to the table beyond their pussies. When I didn't go for the bang on the first date they were less likely to respond for follow up dates.

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I've never been a fan of the "bang on the first date" method. In my opinion, there is too much risk of getting accused of sexual assault, and I'm not really good looking enough to pull it off. I feel creepy trying to get a girl back to my house on the first date, and any woman who would bang the likes of me that easily is probably trouble...

- Virtually impossible to claim sexual assault / #metoo. She will have sent you like 50 million texts by now expressing interest
- Builds comfort and makes sex almost too easy. By the time you're finished the third date, she will practically be begging you to "see your place" (i.e. put her lingerie on your floor).
- Easily converts into an LTR if you're into that. [b]You can also keep her as a FWB or more formally date her, depending what you're into.
[b]- Lets you weed out annoying girls in preference of girls you actually enjoy hanging out with

lol are you dumpster diving? Do you suck? I'm at a loss here man.
If you're working hard to improve yourself why wouldn't a girl want to fuck you on the first date? All these things just as effectively on the first date as you can over 3 dates.