Quote: (01-11-2018 06:11 PM)TheBMan Wrote:
Introduce yourself in a confident manner and say "Hi, my name is _______, I see you've already met my girlfriend ______" while extending hand for a handshake. Its a non-confrontational way to mark your territory.
+1, that's the best approach. Being sociable is a DHV. You don't want to appear like a complete jackass by making sarcastic comments like some users suggested and you can't be sitting in a corner doing nothing either. Once you make it clear that you're together the other guy usually kills the conversation.
I would also add: go to better venues. Coffee shops, cocktail bars are usually better choices than the pub. I don't usually take my girlfriend to crowded bars or clubs unless we are in a group. I see some guys doing that and I have zero respect for them. You're setting her up for getting hit on by dozens of dudes when all she wants is to have a private conversation with you in a relaxed environment.
There is absolutely no reason for a girl to be flirting with other dudes on social media or on her phone if she's in a relationship with you. Pay close attention to what she's posting online and if she's texting people here and there when you're out say something like: You're letting your mother know that you are with me ? She will smile and say no I'm texting this and that. You can then ask question like where are they now ? Ask them to send a picture of this cool food, event, location etc. If she's receptive and provides you with the pictures then you know she's not bullshitting you.
Keep the girl from straying by making the right choices...if you're going for hoes then you can't expect loyalty. If she gives it up easily and has dozens of beta orbiters it's a red flag. Think about, if she's so loose with you, why would she hesitate to sleep with the next high value guy who comes along ? She clearly has no cultural or family programming to hold her back.
Lastly, many girls think that their pussy is made of gold. You can't have the same mentality. Girls will cheat if their environment makes it easy to do so. If her friends don't put any value on relationships and don't pressure her into settling down, if her family is divorced, if she likes pets more then people etc. No matter how cool, fit or wealthy you are, you'll get fucked so make sure you screen well before you commit.