Quote: (12-28-2017 04:50 AM)testos111 Wrote:
Quote: (12-22-2017 02:21 PM)bgbusiness Wrote:
One of the weirdest moments that I had when I been using my default line on Tinder.
My opener is..."Hey, xxx (their name), I checked your thing and you seem alright."
This been working pretty well for everyone except Indian chicks.
By all means, that doesn't mean that I swipe on Indian girls, I rarely do.
However, this girl replies back with, "Sure thanks, but I am pretty sure you are not alright." <- lol...
I usually get "haha, thanks" or "haha, thanks...I guess? lol", "just alright?" from girls who are "normal"...
Indian chicks have 0 game and they just don't have any clue how to move the convo forward...
I'm glad someone pointed this out and I can completely relate to the awkwardness you must have felt.
This social ineptness of Indian girls is exactly why I want to move the fuck out of this country.
In order to make sense of why majority of Indians are boring and dumb. you have to understand something which is often not talked about.
Which is that India is a place where emotional expression is repressed as much as sex.
By emotional expression I mean expressing things that make a smart personality like being witty, having a sense of humor, exhibiting a playful arrogance, etc. Anyone possessing these qualities is usually looked upon as someone who's "trying to show off".
Basically majority of the Indians want everyone else to be as boring and straight-forward as them.
For instance, if you greet someone with a "How are you doing?" (since they won't be able to comprehend "Howdy"), in 90% of the cases you'll get a boring reply like "fine" or "good" and that's it. There be no attempt at using the brain to make the reply a bit creative and witty. So most of the times you'll feel you're having a conversation with a kid.
And that's exactly what Indian women are. Immature kids trapped inside an adult body.
A typical Indian woman grows up in such a protected environment (family) that all hopes of intellectual development (not to be confused with academic achievement) are completely squashed right from the start.
Indian girls are brought up with just one major goal to pursue: MARRIAGE.
Conversations about marriage are the ONLY time I see an Indian girl come alive. It's so hard-wired that it makes having any sort of relationship here almost impossible unless the guy is in for marriage too. The only women I see here who go into dating without the idea of getting married are the ones who usually have just had a divorce and are in a relationship to "escape" from their current "misery". But even there you can be rest assured that she is more motivated towards setting herself up for a second marriage than investing energy in the current relationship.
All this leads to a very unrounded, boring and timid personality. An existence where just the basic child-like pleasures are enough and there is no craving for higher intellectual goals.
A typical Indian women's day goes in the following activities:
1. Going to work, which is basically done as an obligation until marriage.
2. Eating unhealthy "chaat" and oil-filled food at road-side joints. (ever wondered why an Indian dusky woman's skin never looks as shiny as that of a South american one?)
3. Going for over-the-top Bollywood musicals (they pass as films here). Most of these flicks are oriented towards the plot of wedding/marriage/romance, further strengthening her desire to "get settled".
4. Sitting with their moms and screening guys for marriage.
5. Learning the tools of the wedding trade - making the right "chapati", dressing the "appropriate way", etc etc.
They are too lazy to hit the gym or even groom themselves properly.
So as a result of all this, what you get is probably the least desirable, in most cases ugly looking, socially awkward, timid and unadventurous, insufferably boring and emotionally unintelligent three year old dolls who have nothing to do in life but to pass time till they get married.
Yes, there are some good ones but majority of them are smart enough to see how everything works here and are quick to fuck off abroad.
Here we go again. We have a bad ass over here.
Dude, again, aren't you Indian? I've been through this in other posts of yours where you continue to hate on your own culture and ethnicity.
India has its problems as I sure as hell know from growing up there in the 80's and then visiting occasionally since then. However, the problem was never with social engagement with others or tradition. I have enjoyed myself around younger Indians especially middle class and above. They have absolutely no problem making friends although they do not engage people in the same way Americans do (eg small talk). Scandinavian cultures are somewhat similar in this regard. Of course we don't hate on them becauase, first of all it's not a bad thing and next of all their women are pretty.
As far as Marriage? Are you kidding me? You have a bunch of western white guys screaming for help out here because women are not as feminine and marriage minded as they want. You on the other hand describe a country where it's still important, yet cannot help your liberal tendency to spit on it. I'm assuming you would rather have liberal minded women that sleep around, ride the carousel and hit the wall at 30 when no one will marry them like in the USA. Come on dude.
India is a conservative society still. Its problems are infrastructure, health, education and upward mobility as you almost described. However, let's separate that from the conservative nature and behavior of its people. With all its problems, I'm actually glad it keeps its culture somewhat intact even though it's been infiltrated by liberal influences like yours.
As far as the women I met there especially the younger ones, are some of the most caring, social and feminine I have ever seen. I actually spent time with them. You on the other hand appear to have no facts but are rather drawing on your own hate than true perspective. Women in India are affected by poverty and culture mostly. The ones with more money are better looking more liberal (but still much more conservative in general than their western counterparts). The ones that are poorer are just more conservative and not as pretty. Now, I'm speaking about Indian girls from India. The ones that grew up in the west are just no good liberal princesses that are just as try hard as their male counterparts like yourself who spit on their culture. Feel free to date any of them.
I grew up in a traditional India and actually learned my red pill values growing up. They unfortunately were buried by western culture when I moved here at the age of 12. My father worked and my mother was a home maker. I played with other kids in the street and didn't watch much TV or video games. Women were feminine and served their husbands. Men did the heavy lifting. Sure there was poverty and nutrition was sub par but a lot of that is on a steady improvement. Check out the bollywood actors/actresses of today versus 20+ years ago.
I have no doubt you are smart. The problem I have with you is that you are a borderline race troll to be spitting on your own culture jumping on the bandwagon wirh other try hards that don't know better. Difference is that you know better but choose to ignore it.