Quote: (03-01-2012 11:32 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:
I like the idea about some kind of phone screening protocol; I just hd a date with a woman who wouldn't even eat part of a pastry because she had a list of things she was avoiding for Lent. Obviously this chick was not down for rowdy fucking .
But could you clarify "making her come to you?"
You mean specifically coming to your apartment/house?
Or just to a location in your neighborhood....?
Make her come to your hood. I make her come within feet of my house, and we walk from there. This solves almost all of the logistical issues, and keeps out the chicks who will drum up some stupid reason not to drive to you. I'm a 30-40 minute drive for nearly every chick, albeit in a desirable area.
Quote: (03-02-2012 12:38 AM)Hotwheels Wrote:
I agree with MikeCF on this. I've had a lot of success building attraction and getting their sexy time temp up via text. Plus, it weeds out broads that are not down to fuck. I rarely talk on the phone anymore even though I am pretty decent at that game too. Actually much better than in person, which is something I am working on.
I use it on every online hookup I do and have a 90% lay rate on first dates. Basically I use a lot of ambiguity and inuendos and get her to bring up the sex stuff. It's always best to let her go there by doing some prompting that can easily be played off as something else if she calls you on it.
Is this solely a screening device? Or do you think it makes girls more DTF on the date itself? I could see them feeling subconsciously "Well, I've already been sexting him, so it's not such a big deal to fuck him on the first date..."
I've done innuendo here and there, and the girls will enjoy it, but they won't really push it. I'm going to try pressing harder on that in phone/text convos.