If I could rep Comte 10 times I would.
There's some aspects of social circle game that dont get a lot of mention. Funnily it doesn't get talked about too much. I'm talking about the post-bang public treatment.
So you did everything right, you bang a girl from your circle (maybe even got her falling in love), and God forbid you bang ANOTHER girl in that same social circle.
How do you treat her/them in front of everyone? It's a fine line between discretion and making the girl thinks you are ignoring/using/dumping her.
It's hard to tell people to just "treat them exactly like pre-bang". You as a disciplined player can muster the willpower to show no sign that you bang the girl (easier said than done though). But the girl, if she likes you and not a slut, won't. She will linger around you longer, look at you more often, and accidentally stray her hands on you. It doesn't take a genie to know who is sleeping with whom in a circle, its the people who cant seem to keep their paws off each other.
There are trouble on 2 fronts as I see it:
1. The girl's front: post-bang she will expect you to give her more attention, so good luck just simply brushing her aside or treating her just as a friend. If you maintain a too neutral front you risk pissing the girl off. A woman scorned...
I've seen it happen regularly. My buddy is a player in the circle. He moves from girl to girl and usually post-bang he doesn't manage well the attention he gives her, and the girl goes nut. It ended up with him being ostracized from the group and had to leave for a year, losing almost all friends and credibility. The only thing that saves him from being burned sooner is that some girls are sluts and dont mind a ONS with a guy in her circle.
2. The other alphas' front: Comte is absolutely correct that you dont want to be the top-alpha, too much work. Be just the cool guy who is always there is more than enough. Problem is, once you bang a girl it's hard to hide it from other alphas who are also prowling. IF they aint stupid they can smell it a mile away, and will try to make your life much harder.
The only way I managed it back then, was to be on "friendly competition" with the other alphas. So throwing out bets on who could bed who first. Very dangerous though because if you are found out you will be demonized as "those guys", and the top alphas will do everything to shift the blame on you.
There's some aspects of social circle game that dont get a lot of mention. Funnily it doesn't get talked about too much. I'm talking about the post-bang public treatment.
So you did everything right, you bang a girl from your circle (maybe even got her falling in love), and God forbid you bang ANOTHER girl in that same social circle.
How do you treat her/them in front of everyone? It's a fine line between discretion and making the girl thinks you are ignoring/using/dumping her.
It's hard to tell people to just "treat them exactly like pre-bang". You as a disciplined player can muster the willpower to show no sign that you bang the girl (easier said than done though). But the girl, if she likes you and not a slut, won't. She will linger around you longer, look at you more often, and accidentally stray her hands on you. It doesn't take a genie to know who is sleeping with whom in a circle, its the people who cant seem to keep their paws off each other.
There are trouble on 2 fronts as I see it:
1. The girl's front: post-bang she will expect you to give her more attention, so good luck just simply brushing her aside or treating her just as a friend. If you maintain a too neutral front you risk pissing the girl off. A woman scorned...
I've seen it happen regularly. My buddy is a player in the circle. He moves from girl to girl and usually post-bang he doesn't manage well the attention he gives her, and the girl goes nut. It ended up with him being ostracized from the group and had to leave for a year, losing almost all friends and credibility. The only thing that saves him from being burned sooner is that some girls are sluts and dont mind a ONS with a guy in her circle.
2. The other alphas' front: Comte is absolutely correct that you dont want to be the top-alpha, too much work. Be just the cool guy who is always there is more than enough. Problem is, once you bang a girl it's hard to hide it from other alphas who are also prowling. IF they aint stupid they can smell it a mile away, and will try to make your life much harder.
The only way I managed it back then, was to be on "friendly competition" with the other alphas. So throwing out bets on who could bed who first. Very dangerous though because if you are found out you will be demonized as "those guys", and the top alphas will do everything to shift the blame on you.
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