I'll give two that shed maybe a little light on where I'm coming from.
One. A few years ago I went with a couple friends to a post-hardcore/emo show of a band called Saosin. This was in Norfolk, VA at the Norva and the crowd was pretty dead.
I'm pretty pumped, have a lot of energy and I'm looking for people that are on that level but theres hoards of people in their little cliques looking at their phones, it was bizarre. majority of them are underage(21). This all happens before saosin comes on, so during the opening bands.
All of a sudden, from the back of the crowd are these two chicks jumping around crazy, flailing their arms, basically moshing through a crowd that was most def not moshing, all the way, until theyre at the front by us.
if i had to describe them simply, they looked stereotypically punk. But their clothes were ripped in provocative places, they were kinda slick from jumping around and their make up was running a little bit. they drew attention.
so theyre moshing and the people around are all uptight about it, im excited, but people are getting all pissed off.
out of nowhere, i look in their direction and see that they're on the floor in some kind of cat fight/crazy scuffle.
I don't want them to get kicked out being that theyre the most interesting people at the place and the show hasnt even started, so i grab one of them to pull her off.
She was like an animal resistingme. i was using discretion trying to pull her off not touching her in any kind of creepy way. but when she resisted so much, i just grabbed her and ended up pulling her off by wrapping my arms around her chest and pulling, where i was feeling up on her titties basically. they were surprisingly perky and just solid all around.
as soon as i got her off and she regained her composure she looked around for me and i was like oh no, sexual harrassment time.
so she caught my eyes, and i was like "are you ok" and gave her a look like *didnt mean to grope you just then* when i thought she was going to yell at me, smack me, etc etc.
she gives me a hug and says thanks, asks my name and invites me to the bar in the back and offers to buy me a drink. she said "i like how you did that." they were both groupies for one of the opening bands and knew a bunch of ppls there.
Once their band left, they left. I wanted to go meet them, but i was in an awkward situation. noone had ever offered to buy me a drink before and I was wondering how i could handle the situation.
I went to the bar, tried to look cool, ordered a jaegerbomb (wrong choice) and theyre ordering drinks like professional alcoholics. theyre older than me and while im talking to one, the other is heckling me.
I tried to play it smooth but that shit was definitely not working. they asked if i was a virgin and i said yes which is a whole other oddity in itself and they said they like virgins. I blew the whole thing.
got their number and was obsessing over hooking up with them later, but as you might have guessed, it didnt pan out that way. At all.
I analyzed it later and knew that once the roles were reversed and i wasnt the dominant one, that's what fucked me up. they were buying ME drinks. I had to go meet THEM. it killed it.
Ill write the second story in another post.
One. A few years ago I went with a couple friends to a post-hardcore/emo show of a band called Saosin. This was in Norfolk, VA at the Norva and the crowd was pretty dead.
I'm pretty pumped, have a lot of energy and I'm looking for people that are on that level but theres hoards of people in their little cliques looking at their phones, it was bizarre. majority of them are underage(21). This all happens before saosin comes on, so during the opening bands.
All of a sudden, from the back of the crowd are these two chicks jumping around crazy, flailing their arms, basically moshing through a crowd that was most def not moshing, all the way, until theyre at the front by us.
if i had to describe them simply, they looked stereotypically punk. But their clothes were ripped in provocative places, they were kinda slick from jumping around and their make up was running a little bit. they drew attention.
so theyre moshing and the people around are all uptight about it, im excited, but people are getting all pissed off.
out of nowhere, i look in their direction and see that they're on the floor in some kind of cat fight/crazy scuffle.
I don't want them to get kicked out being that theyre the most interesting people at the place and the show hasnt even started, so i grab one of them to pull her off.
She was like an animal resistingme. i was using discretion trying to pull her off not touching her in any kind of creepy way. but when she resisted so much, i just grabbed her and ended up pulling her off by wrapping my arms around her chest and pulling, where i was feeling up on her titties basically. they were surprisingly perky and just solid all around.
as soon as i got her off and she regained her composure she looked around for me and i was like oh no, sexual harrassment time.
so she caught my eyes, and i was like "are you ok" and gave her a look like *didnt mean to grope you just then* when i thought she was going to yell at me, smack me, etc etc.
she gives me a hug and says thanks, asks my name and invites me to the bar in the back and offers to buy me a drink. she said "i like how you did that." they were both groupies for one of the opening bands and knew a bunch of ppls there.
Once their band left, they left. I wanted to go meet them, but i was in an awkward situation. noone had ever offered to buy me a drink before and I was wondering how i could handle the situation.
I went to the bar, tried to look cool, ordered a jaegerbomb (wrong choice) and theyre ordering drinks like professional alcoholics. theyre older than me and while im talking to one, the other is heckling me.
I tried to play it smooth but that shit was definitely not working. they asked if i was a virgin and i said yes which is a whole other oddity in itself and they said they like virgins. I blew the whole thing.
got their number and was obsessing over hooking up with them later, but as you might have guessed, it didnt pan out that way. At all.
I analyzed it later and knew that once the roles were reversed and i wasnt the dominant one, that's what fucked me up. they were buying ME drinks. I had to go meet THEM. it killed it.
Ill write the second story in another post.