Quote: (10-09-2017 07:34 PM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:
Quote: (10-09-2017 06:21 PM)Samseau Wrote:
If you're in the USA, find a state that honors pre-nups well and get married and live there. If you do not think you can stay monogamous to your wife forever, tell her about your concerns before you get married. She may be cool with letting you have some extra on the side every now and then. The fact is, having an open relationship is just as possible unmarried as it is married nowadays because adultery isn't grounds for divorce in America. All you need to have a divorce in America is for one party to ask for it. Adultery is almost never considered by any judge. So for all practical purposes in the eyes of the law, all marriages are open-relationships by definition.
Legally speaking, the point of marriage is reduced taxes and getting custody rights of your children in the event of a divorce (which is rather likely). The reason I suggest getting married at all is not because I think we can avoid divorce, it's so you have more rights in the court system. Speak with a divorce lawyer near you and read about the case law studies at realworlddivorce.com. Marriages with pre-nups are the best option as far as I can tell.
I'm having trouble keeping up with whether this forum has flipped the switch from hypergamous debauchery to traditionalist monogamy or back again or back again again.
WWT wants to know how a guy living in a debauched hive, possibly in the Clinton Archipelago can expect to find and keep an honest woman?
Sorry to answer a question with a question but if you guys want a decent wife and to extend your family line then what the fuck are you actually willing to sacrifice for it?
Are you guys seriously telling me that you expect a woman to keep her legs closed while in a liberal hive-city while you fuck other chicks? Traditionalism for she, but not for me? And you're going to kiss your kids on the cheek with the same lips you were jamming in some random skank's cunt the night before?
And where are you looking for this doormat? Tinder? Happy hour? God forbid you should step foot in a church, because it might be difficult to find a keeper that gargles your balls half way through the first date.
Get your shit straight, bros.
Leonard, why don't you take a break and come back when you are interested in having a conversation. As of right now, you continue strawman arguments.
In other news, all guys have to do is move out to the bush where the only competition are kangaroos and claim everyone else needs to man up. It's hard to lose anything in a divorce when you're piss poor.