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(10-06-2017 09:27 AM)Jetset Wrote:  

You say you're 33 and have never really had a girlfriend before. There's a lot of learning for you to do, here.

You say you "can't really do this with a woman", but yes, you can. If she's actually attracted to you, she wants to be with you and have fun with you, at least for a while, before she wants to be "boyfriend/girlfriend". She's attracted to you, so she assumes that other women are attracted to you, too. If there aren't other women in your life, it will make her wonder what's wrong, question her judgment, and very likely lose interest in you.

You've been around this woman on three dates and she gave you a handjob. There is absolutely no reason to be talking about "boyfriend/girlfriend" right now. You're just hanging out. Stop overthinking it. You don't owe her anything and aren't doing anything wrong by talking to other women. She is certainly talking to other men and probably fucking at least one.

Ok, but that's right now. Next date we might fuck. And what about when we've fucked a few times?