I need to get into the mindset of going for instant dates rather than numbers
09-15-2017, 03:13 PMQuote: (09-13-2017 09:44 PM)BlueMark Wrote:
I've been doing more approaches over the past few weeks. One pattern I've noticed is that I tend to ask for the girl's number, and then afterwards realizing that I could have asked for an instant date somewhere, but the idea didn't occur to me in the middle of the interaction.
Tell me how would this have turn out If you didn't get your cellphone out to take numbers ? What if you tell her "I don't do cell number... Nobody ain't got time fo getting attached, Freedom is the only thing a man need live." ?
Quote: (09-13-2017 10:33 PM)The Catalyst Wrote:
I would recommend getting into the mentality of thinking about spending more time with her.
Excellent, let me ask How do you do that ?
How do you get into the mentality of thinking ?
Tell them too much, they wouldn't understand; tell them what they know, they would yawn.
They have to move up by responding to challenges, not too easy not too hard, until they paused at what they always think is the end of the road for all time instead of a momentary break in an endless upward spiral