[Single Dad Swag]

Just my opinion, but alcohol doesn't sound like the problem here.

Sounds like you're letting this shit get in your head and fuck with you, and it can become a serious issue if you allow it to. I went through a short phase like this when I was younger. Erections have serious psychological tie-in's and if you start getting worried about not getting up while knocking on the door, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Try cutting back a little on the alcohol when a bang is likely, but I wouldn't necessarily eliminate it. Alcohol in moderation would probably help you, in my opinion- as it should loosen you up. If the shit continues, you're mind-fucking yourself and getting stage fright. Happens to the best of us.

Edit to add- the best fix for performance anxiety (from personal experience) is a simple blow job before intercourse. Should rock you right up, at least long enough for penetration---which should end the issue. This girls refusal to give some maggie probably just pissed you off and made the situation an instant dead end. Find a more normal girl who will suck like she should and smash it. Should get your confidence back and have you in true form.