What age did you move out?
23. I had an argument with my mother and left the house for 2 weeks, sleeping in the car. One of those weeks was a work vacation, so I went to the mountains for that time and during it I realised that I had to depart. I was paying my mum rent anyway, so it wasn't worth paying her money to have zero freedom. When I got back, she was supportive about my decision.
What living arrangements did you move into?
I moved in with just one girl, she was a bit older than me, was obese and put up a nice front. Tried to be friends with me, invite me downstairs to watch TV, eat take out but I wasn't interested. She took it personally and became a bit of a bitch. She was also one of those chronic "I'm going to diet" types that never stick with it.
Things came to a head when her druggie boyfriend moved in, he got her on the stuff and I essentially locked myself away in my room. 6 months after I moved in, she asked me to move out and even on the last night she came in my room after a night out, drunk as hell and started insulting me - at 1am. I'm literally gone the next day and she just couldn't leave it.
Why did you move out?
Answered above.
How long did you remain out of home before returning?
I came back 4 years later, because I needed a simple arrangement before moving country and my things would already be at her house waiting to be flown over on return visits. By then I had already been in another two living arrangements - one with a much chilled guy (he had his own personal problems, but was a reasonable landlord to his tenants), and another with my best friend. Which came to an end when his wife moved in.
And finally any advice you guys have.
Depends if you're living alone or with others. If the latter, don't share with fat western archetype women. And if you like your isolation, tell them in advance in case they expect you to hang out with them in the common room or go into the city together.
23. I had an argument with my mother and left the house for 2 weeks, sleeping in the car. One of those weeks was a work vacation, so I went to the mountains for that time and during it I realised that I had to depart. I was paying my mum rent anyway, so it wasn't worth paying her money to have zero freedom. When I got back, she was supportive about my decision.
What living arrangements did you move into?
I moved in with just one girl, she was a bit older than me, was obese and put up a nice front. Tried to be friends with me, invite me downstairs to watch TV, eat take out but I wasn't interested. She took it personally and became a bit of a bitch. She was also one of those chronic "I'm going to diet" types that never stick with it.
Things came to a head when her druggie boyfriend moved in, he got her on the stuff and I essentially locked myself away in my room. 6 months after I moved in, she asked me to move out and even on the last night she came in my room after a night out, drunk as hell and started insulting me - at 1am. I'm literally gone the next day and she just couldn't leave it.
Why did you move out?
Answered above.
How long did you remain out of home before returning?
I came back 4 years later, because I needed a simple arrangement before moving country and my things would already be at her house waiting to be flown over on return visits. By then I had already been in another two living arrangements - one with a much chilled guy (he had his own personal problems, but was a reasonable landlord to his tenants), and another with my best friend. Which came to an end when his wife moved in.
And finally any advice you guys have.
Depends if you're living alone or with others. If the latter, don't share with fat western archetype women. And if you like your isolation, tell them in advance in case they expect you to hang out with them in the common room or go into the city together.