[speakeasy]

I don't think there's anything wrong with being "nice", I think people automatically think "nice" means "wussy". I know of nice dudes that do just find with girls. They may not be the badboy banging 3 new girls a week, but they find nice girls that are good for them. I think as long as you know how to be a real man, stand your ground, and don't take shit from anyone, you can be nice to her, but it's important for her to see that you don't take shit from other men. Girls like a guy that is nice to her, but shows he can dominate other men and be an alpha male. A guy that's nice by CHOICE, not by necessity. I think something like that can work fine.