[PapayaTapper]

1. Stop making out in places you cant bang (theaters, parks, etc)

2. Get her in bang location

3. Follow virgin LMR work around rules here (highlighted) from a previous post

(08-24-2015 12:45 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(08-24-2015 08:40 AM)captndonk Wrote:  

@Papayatapper
We are not making out in underwear, she brings extra shorts with her to wear them in the bed instead of her jeans. It's okay for her if I unzip her bra, but not to remove any clothing.

Well you should be in your underwear. This was the primary idea behind my last post. She resists what you do to her but doesn't control what you do right? You need to be making out with her and rubbing your boner on her. You think she won't notice? Of course she will. And guess what? The fact that she's turning you on is going to excite her...that's millions of years of evolutionary biology working for you.

(08-24-2015 08:40 AM)captndonk Wrote:  

So she came over and we watched crank, and I tried to escalate. I did some microprogress. (massaging her ass) But when I tried to get near her pussy she really fought back with what I assume all her might. She wasn't angry with me but yeah there was no point in continuing this.

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Of course she wasn't angry. She wants to be there, and guess what?...she wants to fuck you,...that is why she keeps coming over. It's only her fear and insecurity that's keeping it from happening. You need to take the lead, and you are making progress but trying to get through her defenses is going to take months of "micro progress". If your ok with that then ok.

Your leading her but by trying to "escalate" through her fear and insecurity to get her let you [enter her is the most difficult route. Think about that for a moment. It's most often lost on us a men what level of comfort and surrender it takes for a girl to let someone "enter" their body. Especially for the first time[/b] (but empathy game is a whole different topic).

I'm telling you right now that you wont get to fuck her in her precious pussy hole until after you get handjobs and maybe even blowjobs first. Ive banged a handful of virgins (3 or 4 or 5) and it always ended up this way. This basically high school game.

If you want to get to where you want to go faster you need to take a route of lesser resistance. You need to get her comfortable with your body and your needs...hence the scenario I outlined in my previous post. You want to escalate? You need to start rubbing your cock while youre making out with her, and then put her hand on it

I was joking about showing her that video (I didn't think that you really would) but ok...no harm done. Actually least you introduce sexual content and the concept of YOUR NEEDS into your interaction....and she didn't freak out...right?

When she asked why you showed her the video that's when you should have said

"I really like hanging out with you but it's painful, Im a man , my balls need release, you dont want me to be in pain do you?...blah blah blah"