I would choose my own route and sink or swim by it, but this behaviour has me a little perplexed so seeking opinion.
Have tried Tinder and mailed all matches above about 7.3. They all seem like fairly nice girls bar one who seems to have high opinions of herself, about an 8 (with makeup) and dresses well. Her profile has an aggressive air in which she lists the qualities she is seeking. One of the characteristics is spontaneity. So I send a jokey message saying that I think I fit all her criteria except spontaneity but that I'll make up for that by having our second date in a country I am going to soon anyway
. She says 'OK'. Then I make a comment about something she has in her profile. She replies saying this isn't an interview for a date and that she's not going to discuss this on Tinder.
The way I am reading this is that she is trying to shit test me, to see if I will conquer her tests or shrink away.
What do you read in between the lines here, RVFers?
Have tried Tinder and mailed all matches above about 7.3. They all seem like fairly nice girls bar one who seems to have high opinions of herself, about an 8 (with makeup) and dresses well. Her profile has an aggressive air in which she lists the qualities she is seeking. One of the characteristics is spontaneity. So I send a jokey message saying that I think I fit all her criteria except spontaneity but that I'll make up for that by having our second date in a country I am going to soon anyway
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The way I am reading this is that she is trying to shit test me, to see if I will conquer her tests or shrink away.
What do you read in between the lines here, RVFers?