Quote: (06-13-2017 04:09 PM)spaceman Wrote:
Quote: (06-13-2017 02:15 PM)Drazen Wrote:
Quote: (06-13-2017 02:06 PM)spaceman Wrote:
When setting up a day 2 with a chick, do you guys just look for locations near your pad (or hers?) so a couple of drinks and go back and smash? LA is so spread, these logistics are a bit confusing to me.
I generally only date girls that live within 5-7 miles of me. It just never works out otherwise.
On my second date, I usually set up a daytime beach thing on a Saturday day or Sunday day. I have her park at my place and then we uber to the beach bar or something along those lines. Or we just meet at the beach. We have a few drinks and uber back to my place or hers if possible. If she drove for some reason (girls are cheap and don't always use uber for some reason), I ask for a ride back to my place.
If its a night thing, I set up a multi-pickup lyft and just have the lyft swoop her at her place and go somewhere. Then dropping off, I just do a direct uber/lyft drop off and come up.
Thanks for the rundown. Interesting. I can see how these logistics complicate everything. Especially with LA's shitty parking situation. Would you recommend living in Culver City or more on the west side? I kind of want to live more in the West side beach areas but I know once you live near the beach you never ever go to the beach. and you pay out of the ass for it in LA. (I lived on miami beach for 2 years)
At least in Culver, you can metro both ways. to save on uber/cabs. shit like that.
Depending on your game style and type of female you like, I'd highly recommend spending one to two weekends checking out different parts of LA before deciding where to live AT DIFFERENT HOURS OF THE DAY. It might seem boring at times but you'll be investing a big part of you life in wherever you move so you need to be sure you've chosen wisely.
Unless you absolutely kill it on Tinder, you're going to need to practice something I called Stream Theory, which is what I've relied on in the past for LA. Meaning that because LA is so fucking spread out, you need to make best use of your time and maximize your hunting efforts and game, not only in the most ideal places, but also during the prime hours where there are STREAMS of women. Like others have mentioned, it doesn't make sense to go to a bar on a Friday night when there's a sausagefest and/or they have girls that are not to your liking (ex. hipsters) Compare this to say Melrose around 3pm on a Thursday or Friday around that fucking Pink Wall (google it) where I'm guessing majority of dudes don't necessarily want to hang out there (I don't) but where you'll find a consistent STREAM of women.
If you're a club guy, then obviously living near the clubs that provide the highest number of girls which fit your target market makes sense. I personally have not had much success with clubs in LA so day game is my shit. But majority of hot girls in even the high STREAM areas such as Melrose will be in pairs so you need to either have tight game to open and charm pairs of girls or have a good wingman to help you.
Lastly, I would highly emphasize you need to strike while the iron is hot. There are so many game aware dudes here plus guys with weak game but with lots of money and status who will use it, that when you've got the girl in front of you, you close that deal now homie! Instadate her if she's still standing there talking to you or listening to your rap, etc. I remember bringing a girl back to my hotel near 3rd st promenade in Santa Monica who had like 7000 followers/(or whatever) on Tinder and she was constantly getting hit up. My ex-gf had a messaging app where she only posted a pic of her nose and was getting hit up throughout the day. Both of these girls were 19/20-ish. They're getting offered so much dick that when you've got that moment of opportunity, do not waste it as you might never get it again. Being able to give a girl good quality orgasms and actually connecting with the girl will at least level the playing field when some other B/C list celebrity tries to flaunt their cash and lifestyle their way (yes, I have this experience) but if you don't pull the trigger when it's there, you'll just get lost in the haze of dick pics and lame, needy texts that hot girls get on the regular in LA.
Good luck