What's your flake to successful meetup ratio? How are they flaking? Some level of flaking is to be expected, but if it's too high you're probably doing something wrong in the lead-up.
It's most likely down to you not building enough rapport before getting the number. The more excited a girl is to see you, the less likely she is to flake. Girls make time to see guys they're really into.
If you haven't built enough rapport calling them on the phone can be good to get them more into it.
You're not doing anything wrong inviting them for drinks. Coffee is not for closers where players are concerned.
It's most likely down to you not building enough rapport before getting the number. The more excited a girl is to see you, the less likely she is to flake. Girls make time to see guys they're really into.
If you haven't built enough rapport calling them on the phone can be good to get them more into it.
You're not doing anything wrong inviting them for drinks. Coffee is not for closers where players are concerned.
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