Quote: (06-01-2017 04:14 AM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:
OP thanks for sharing your raw story with honesty, really feeling for you mate.
I want to remind you that you had a really successful marriage for a significant period of your life, and thats an achievement to be proud of, and happy about.
Also, I know it doesn't seem like it now, but take it from a man who was married for 15 years, despite a nasty heartbreaking divorce, life gets back to being awesome in a few years.
Very awesome.
So don't beat yourself up, think of the good things you have enjoyed, and will in the future.
Best of luck and kind regards mate.
I think his wife had a successful marriage, look at her trajectory versus his trajectory. She started with nothing and went up in value, sure she's older but higher in value nonetheless. How many women do you know that are making 6 figures? How many of them are you fucking? It looks like he just stayed the same so the question becomes what value did he get from her because she sure as hell got a lot of value from him. Pussy isn't value. I'll repeat that. Pussy isn't value.
I don't know the OP but it seems like in those years he didn't advance as a human being though having financial wealth and a good part of that has to do who he partnered with and why. He invested in her and less so in himself and notice how in the end he thinks it's his fault that it ended. All of this talk of her trying to make it work, how much of that effort was expended in her just accepting him for who he is and what he's done? Or maybe that's what she finally did and decided that there just wasn't a match. Why didn't he come to that conclusion? Why with all of the financial trappings was he unable to be that man who women want to be with and around?