Bump.
I've been using a very similar first date protocol for the past year and a half.
This is how it usually goes down:
5pm: Meet them at Location #1, an ice cream shop I've hyped up as the best in town. The place usually has a line, so I can build some conversation, and then we sit outside talking and people watching.
5:45pm: We're done, get up and start walking. Based on their style and the conversation, I tell them we should go to one of my #2 locations (bookshop, bar, café, health store). During the walk, I point out all the cool spots in the neighborhood.
6pm: Get to Location #2. If it's a bar, I'll have a water and she usually gets something to drink; if it's a bookshop I'll show her some cool photography or cooking books and ask her to show me her favorite books, etc.
7pm: Leave Location #2, invite her over to my place for coffee/Netflix/joint. "Well, how far is it?". She doesn't know it, but we've been walking towards my apartment the whole time. At that point, it's a 5-10min walk, so absolute no brainer.
What I love about this little recipe:
- Girls agree to meet during the day, so their defenses are low. As if thinking, "we'll, it will be light out. We're not having sex during the day". However, I always make sure to meet them LATE afternoon. What that means is, by the time we're in location #2 or leaving it, it's dark out.
Just like with the Tuth's First Date Recipe, because we've been hanging during the day, and it's now night, and we've been through multiple locations, the time we've spent together seems much longer than it actually is. She's super comfortable with me and very willing to go to my place.
- They may or may not know I live in the region where we're scheduled to meet, but they don't know how close my house is and I don't bother to clear it up.
- The path between Location #1 and my crib can be customized according to the girl, so I always make sure to taylor it to get the most out of the situation. The key is - anywhere I go after Location #1 we're closer and closer to my house.
- Very cheap (maximum cost is two ice cream cones and a water), fun, and allows me to get to know the girl better - which I love because I'm more of a repeat than ONS guy, so I'm always screening for keepers.
- Since I don't drink and have an overall very healthy lifestyle (wake up early, exercise a lot, eat clean, etc), I try to avoid sleeping late or hanging out where drunks congregate.
By doing this recipe, I can accomplish all of those and be done banging them multiple times by midnight or 1am at the latest. They usually leave and I get a good night of sleep by myself.
I've been using a very similar first date protocol for the past year and a half.
This is how it usually goes down:
5pm: Meet them at Location #1, an ice cream shop I've hyped up as the best in town. The place usually has a line, so I can build some conversation, and then we sit outside talking and people watching.
5:45pm: We're done, get up and start walking. Based on their style and the conversation, I tell them we should go to one of my #2 locations (bookshop, bar, café, health store). During the walk, I point out all the cool spots in the neighborhood.
6pm: Get to Location #2. If it's a bar, I'll have a water and she usually gets something to drink; if it's a bookshop I'll show her some cool photography or cooking books and ask her to show me her favorite books, etc.
7pm: Leave Location #2, invite her over to my place for coffee/Netflix/joint. "Well, how far is it?". She doesn't know it, but we've been walking towards my apartment the whole time. At that point, it's a 5-10min walk, so absolute no brainer.
What I love about this little recipe:
- Girls agree to meet during the day, so their defenses are low. As if thinking, "we'll, it will be light out. We're not having sex during the day". However, I always make sure to meet them LATE afternoon. What that means is, by the time we're in location #2 or leaving it, it's dark out.
Just like with the Tuth's First Date Recipe, because we've been hanging during the day, and it's now night, and we've been through multiple locations, the time we've spent together seems much longer than it actually is. She's super comfortable with me and very willing to go to my place.
- They may or may not know I live in the region where we're scheduled to meet, but they don't know how close my house is and I don't bother to clear it up.
- The path between Location #1 and my crib can be customized according to the girl, so I always make sure to taylor it to get the most out of the situation. The key is - anywhere I go after Location #1 we're closer and closer to my house.
- Very cheap (maximum cost is two ice cream cones and a water), fun, and allows me to get to know the girl better - which I love because I'm more of a repeat than ONS guy, so I'm always screening for keepers.
- Since I don't drink and have an overall very healthy lifestyle (wake up early, exercise a lot, eat clean, etc), I try to avoid sleeping late or hanging out where drunks congregate.
By doing this recipe, I can accomplish all of those and be done banging them multiple times by midnight or 1am at the latest. They usually leave and I get a good night of sleep by myself.
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