Samseau and Athlone, great posts.
Just to confirm - are you guys getting no traction with girls you haven't fucked? This has been happening to me for a little while now, and I thought it was some flaw in my game - my rapport phase has always been a little weak. I found that almost every time, if I didn't bang a girl on the first date, I didn't see her again, or would not ultimately bang her even if we did meet up again later. If I didn't fuck her the first night, I just became this non-entity in her head, either not compelling enough to see again, or not sex worthy. Even if I fingered them on the first date. My main mistake was only having 1-2 drinks with them, even though the dates were always at my place, where I didn't have to drive.
This is pretty mind-blowing. Because NO ONE is talking about this. About the fact that you have to fuck a girl, and fuck her well, on the first date if you want to see her again. All this BS about girls complaining how hard dating is, this talk about dating in the modern world... it has no connection to the reality we live in. Maybe it's different in social circle game, which is the most common way to find a mate.
Just to confirm - are you guys getting no traction with girls you haven't fucked? This has been happening to me for a little while now, and I thought it was some flaw in my game - my rapport phase has always been a little weak. I found that almost every time, if I didn't bang a girl on the first date, I didn't see her again, or would not ultimately bang her even if we did meet up again later. If I didn't fuck her the first night, I just became this non-entity in her head, either not compelling enough to see again, or not sex worthy. Even if I fingered them on the first date. My main mistake was only having 1-2 drinks with them, even though the dates were always at my place, where I didn't have to drive.
This is pretty mind-blowing. Because NO ONE is talking about this. About the fact that you have to fuck a girl, and fuck her well, on the first date if you want to see her again. All this BS about girls complaining how hard dating is, this talk about dating in the modern world... it has no connection to the reality we live in. Maybe it's different in social circle game, which is the most common way to find a mate.