Today, I finally got a bid from a fraternity I wanted to join after rushing 3 times. I was texting my buddy who was in the fraternity and he brought up the fact that I was "quiet" was the only negative thing they said about me.
Now, in my moment of reflectiveness/insecurity, I gotta ask, is being quiet something that can truly work against someone? Does lacking something to say every moment really work against you? Honestly, I've always been a quiet reserved person in real life. For a long time as a kid, I was actually afraid to talk because I was worried about saying something stupid.
So for those of you guys out there who have been quiet at some point in your life/are quiet, did/do you find being quiet to be something that worked against you?
Now, in my moment of reflectiveness/insecurity, I gotta ask, is being quiet something that can truly work against someone? Does lacking something to say every moment really work against you? Honestly, I've always been a quiet reserved person in real life. For a long time as a kid, I was actually afraid to talk because I was worried about saying something stupid.
So for those of you guys out there who have been quiet at some point in your life/are quiet, did/do you find being quiet to be something that worked against you?