Quote: (02-19-2017 12:08 AM)questor70 Wrote:
That being said, guys often have an emotional blindspot for how women really feel about them. They can swear up and down that a date went great but the woman had a lackluster time. If you learn to read her body language more, then if they say they want to see you again you'll know it's probably just them trying to avoid conflict so they can ghost you.
My experience over the past year and a half: I know a date was a "good date" when I fuck her that night, or at least have her top pulled off and my hands down her skirt.
If that doesn't happen then even now, after dozens of dates and no matter how the date went otherwise, I'm pretty much lost as to whether she'll want to go out again, or not, and it's totally anyone's guess. I couldn't possibly handicap it and I don't make any assumptions.
At least with online game I would realistically characterize the overwhelming majority of the dates I've been on, maybe 75%, as "lackluster." At this point if I don't even get any smooching/kino on the first date or she seems generally ambivalent I just delete her number after I leave. Sucks, but I probably haven't lost anything by doing it.
Conversely I've been wildly successful with the couple girls I've managed to pull from night game, their interest level is intrinsically much higher. It's also much more work to pull it off.