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(01-25-2012 05:55 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

As to the original topic:

Currently, my policy is if a girl hasn't put out by the first date, I stop trying to bang her. She can call me up afterwards if she wants to hang again.

I'm similar to this as well. I'm not known to be patient when it comes to getting the bang. Of course there are some exceptions, obviously if you can tell a girl wants to bang you but is on her period or hasn't trimmed the hedges or something and unwilling to do it with a new guy because of that, I won't push too hard and have no problem waiting a few days because I'm still getting action somewhere else in the meantime.

However if by the third meeting I ain't getting any action it's time to cut my losses, she's obviously wasting my time.

I broke this rule ONCE last year, I was talking to a cute 19 yr. old middle eastern chick who came from a wealthy family. She was really into me, and she insisted on paying for everything when we went out. She gave me some oral on the third date but was still hesitant to let me hit it. I think she was trying to put me into the boyfriend zone and wanted to seem like a challenge.

Anyway, I decided to cut my losses and stopped calling her or replying to her text messages. After a few days I responded to one of her messages and she came over and let me wear that thing out.


So, I guess in some instances it can be worth the wait but most of the time, especially if their past 25yrs old I can't be bothered.