This is bothering you because you know deep down your 100 percent right to want your needs met. A lot of the times you find out with these girls that say they don't do this , or they tried something like anal in the past and don't do it anymore is because you don't create the kind of climate in which she feel she has to do these things.
Your bargaining about your needs as a man while you give her your time, your most valuable resource, whether it comes with your commitment or not. If you started to "just not pick up the phone" or "not send many responses to her texts" she would be quick to assert herself as most women are. Even if you were doing the other things she wanted, she'd still advocate that she wanted all bases covered. I think things like this should be a deal breaker for any dude with all the bullshit we have to give up to be in a relationship.
As the male half you have to constantly manage emotions, handle logistics, defuse arguments, escalate and yet you have to compromise? Fuck all that. If I was you I woulda been told her, "slob on my knob or kick rocks". Selfishness is healthy and necessary when dealing with these chicks. Pretty soon it will be my girlfriend just doesn't fuck me that often. If you don't believe me go look up the deadbedroom subreddit. Grown men leaning in and doing chores hoping their wives will give them a hand job.
TL;DR: State to her getting head is a need not a want for you to be happy in the relationship.
Your bargaining about your needs as a man while you give her your time, your most valuable resource, whether it comes with your commitment or not. If you started to "just not pick up the phone" or "not send many responses to her texts" she would be quick to assert herself as most women are. Even if you were doing the other things she wanted, she'd still advocate that she wanted all bases covered. I think things like this should be a deal breaker for any dude with all the bullshit we have to give up to be in a relationship.
As the male half you have to constantly manage emotions, handle logistics, defuse arguments, escalate and yet you have to compromise? Fuck all that. If I was you I woulda been told her, "slob on my knob or kick rocks". Selfishness is healthy and necessary when dealing with these chicks. Pretty soon it will be my girlfriend just doesn't fuck me that often. If you don't believe me go look up the deadbedroom subreddit. Grown men leaning in and doing chores hoping their wives will give them a hand job.
TL;DR: State to her getting head is a need not a want for you to be happy in the relationship.