Quote: (10-30-2016 10:50 PM)laq8ty Wrote:
I agree with a lot of what is posted. But I think La is a city where you have to figure out a game/scene/niche that works for you and roll with it.
I have a story that kind of proves this point. I was in LA a few years ago and visited with a Guatemalan lady friend who I've known for years. She was telling me about her kids and that her deaf daughter, in her low 20s, was running on the wild side and that she didn't see her very often. I asked, "Is she bouncing around in Huntington Park?" (That's where they used to live). She answered, "No, she's a lesbian, so she hangs with the deaf lesbian crowd and they're primarily based in Riverside and Orange County."
I had no idea that there was a deaf lesbian community. But, it shows that in the LA area there is every kind of group that you can think of. So, I agree that you should find the group that has the lifestyle that interests you, then show off your charisma and alpha cred so that you become a leader in that group. Then, leverage that fame into other social groups that are related.
By the way, there are tons of information in this forum about how to game in LA. Check out some of the older stuff by Christian McQueen and G-Manifesto. Another regular who I haven't seen around lately who had a lot of good information was Drazen. He really seemed to know what he was talking about.