Quote: (01-25-2012 11:51 AM)pitt Wrote:
Quote: (01-25-2012 11:35 AM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:
Quote: (01-25-2012 02:07 AM)pitt Wrote:
Quote: (01-25-2012 12:31 AM)gringochileno Wrote:
Women want to be approached by guys they like. They don't like being approached by dudes with no game any more than you like it when a hideous land whale won't leave you alone in a bar.
Thats the worse mindset a man can have.
He is right.
I tell you why this mindset is bad.
When you are thinking like that, you are going to ponder a lot about who you are going to approach, you start getting thoughts like the following two options:
- She is very pretty, she may not even talk to me, she has lots of options, she wont talk to me because im black or because im short or because my game is not good enough
- She is not looking at me, not smiling at me, she is probably not interested
When i approach a woman, i just dont think about it, i just do it. I will do it anywhere, the train station, the pub, the international airport, the gym, at work, if she is walking with her parents, if she is jogging in the area. Regardless of how she is dressed, of where i am, how hot she is, how is her body language, i dont care about none of these things, i just approach if i think she is that hot. And guess what, they hardly refuse to give me their numbers. Its a brave man's world. Just approach, dont think about the end result.
Don't read too much into it. I wasn't meaning in any way to give a reason not to approach. If you have the right mindset you should think you're the shit and every single girl would feel very lucky and special to be approached by you anyway. I'm just pointing out the reality that hot girls get hit on extremely often, mostly by dudes with terrible game, and this has the effect of making them both resentful of garden-variety mediocre approaches and all the more grateful when the occasional guy who knows what he's doing comes along.