Either she's with you or she's not. Were you guys planning on getting married? If not then just keep fucking her until you're ready to move on. The fact that she doesn't want to remove it for you without you asking means she still holds her ex in higher regards than she sees you. That tells you how she feels about you. Act accordingly. Your options are
1. Apologize and keep fucking her until you find someone better. Don't invest any emotion or waste much effort on the relationship anymore
2. Next
1. Apologize and keep fucking her until you find someone better. Don't invest any emotion or waste much effort on the relationship anymore
2. Next