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Well, I can't follow that. Excellent advice. I'll just say that I had a young man working for me in a very similar situation. Eventually he joined the army, and when I saw him again 2 years later he was a different man, with hardness in the eyes as well as the muscles. He'snow married to an 8. I'm not ex-military so if someone who is doesn't agree then I'll defer to their knowledge.
And yeah, get fucking laid, man. At 17/18 I'd say run some game and you'll close the deal eventually, but at 22 you're stuck in a rut. Get fucking laid, better a prostitute 7 than an easy score warpig, at least you'll learn something.
You sound like you've become a physical man without your mind catching up. If you're spending time on the chans, stop. It'll eat up crazy amounts of your time and energy, and before you know it the day is over and wasted.
Yes, you can get into shape without paying to go to the gym. Stay at it 6 weeks or so to see some results, and that will give you some confidence and belief to keep going.
And yes, you do fucking matter. You will become the man you need to be, and you'll wonder what the hell you were thinking when you posted this. All you need is a kick up the arse and some confidence, which comes from challenging yourself. Without challenge, a man withers, both physically and mentally. It doesn't matter what the challenge is, but you absolutely have to challenge yourself. When you meet that challenge you find a part of yourself, gain confidence and then it's onwards and upwards. You pick the challenge, whether it's getting in shape or selling something to make a few bucks and reinvest it. Whatever it is, just push yourself a bit.
I'd say you need to break your routine, now. Get out of your parent's house, because it sounds like you're a pet cooped up and waiting to die. That's why I suggested military, as it will give you physical training, camaraderie and a purpose. You're being kept, you're not living.
Good luck, man.
Well, I can't follow that. Excellent advice. I'll just say that I had a young man working for me in a very similar situation. Eventually he joined the army, and when I saw him again 2 years later he was a different man, with hardness in the eyes as well as the muscles. He'snow married to an 8. I'm not ex-military so if someone who is doesn't agree then I'll defer to their knowledge.
And yeah, get fucking laid, man. At 17/18 I'd say run some game and you'll close the deal eventually, but at 22 you're stuck in a rut. Get fucking laid, better a prostitute 7 than an easy score warpig, at least you'll learn something.
You sound like you've become a physical man without your mind catching up. If you're spending time on the chans, stop. It'll eat up crazy amounts of your time and energy, and before you know it the day is over and wasted.
Yes, you can get into shape without paying to go to the gym. Stay at it 6 weeks or so to see some results, and that will give you some confidence and belief to keep going.
And yes, you do fucking matter. You will become the man you need to be, and you'll wonder what the hell you were thinking when you posted this. All you need is a kick up the arse and some confidence, which comes from challenging yourself. Without challenge, a man withers, both physically and mentally. It doesn't matter what the challenge is, but you absolutely have to challenge yourself. When you meet that challenge you find a part of yourself, gain confidence and then it's onwards and upwards. You pick the challenge, whether it's getting in shape or selling something to make a few bucks and reinvest it. Whatever it is, just push yourself a bit.
I'd say you need to break your routine, now. Get out of your parent's house, because it sounds like you're a pet cooped up and waiting to die. That's why I suggested military, as it will give you physical training, camaraderie and a purpose. You're being kept, you're not living.
Good luck, man.