Quote: (01-10-2017 09:49 PM)lazariuskriss Wrote:
Wtf?! I myself am a software developer and i got never called nerd or geeky, or poindexter. On the contrary, i get more girls than i can handle. I think you somehow project your own insecurities and worries subconsciently about somehow the other seeing you nerdy and the girls and/or other pick it up. I lived 2 years in the Us (Miami, Sf, Boston and Chicago) and never a girl turned me down because i'm a software developer. Just work out, dress well, educate yourself (not only in computer science, but economics, politics, "social dynamics", music, etc.. read a lot, not only SF but also every other genre), learn languages and instruments, etc. Be a better "you". You're a specialist in software development, but this doesn't mean that's the only thing you should be and do. Software development is a part of You ( for a big part), so is your education (in politics, economics, etc to a lesser extend) but it does not define you. You are You. Become a well educated man which specialize in software development. If You do that you won't have major problems in getting the girls you want and everything else in life.
That's awesome! Thanks man! That really motivates me and puts my mind at ease. I was really worried.