First of all, saying I'm "18k in debt" is misrepresenting the situation. The money is right there. All I have to do is sign a piece of paper and I won't be in debt.
Second of all, I don't expect anyone to have any sympathy for me. I just expect people to speak to me respectfully and to give constructive advice instead of just telling me how much of a fuck up and an asshole I am.
Lastly, what do you guys expect me to say? Do you expect me to say "I was wrong about my dad. It turns out he's actually a great dad and I should respect him more. I have decided to let him hold on to my money. I can't believe I ever considered trying to take it." ???
Obviously, I'm not going to say that. I can listen to advice and do my best to change my bad habits, but I have pretty much made up my mind that I want my money, I want to move out of my dad's house, and I have reasons to be resentful towards him. Those things were never really up for discussion. I would be lying if I said my feelings towards my dad changed because of what some guys on a forum said to me.
Seriously, what am I supposed to say? How should I react so that you guys won't think I'm an asshole and a spoiled child?
Second of all, I don't expect anyone to have any sympathy for me. I just expect people to speak to me respectfully and to give constructive advice instead of just telling me how much of a fuck up and an asshole I am.
Lastly, what do you guys expect me to say? Do you expect me to say "I was wrong about my dad. It turns out he's actually a great dad and I should respect him more. I have decided to let him hold on to my money. I can't believe I ever considered trying to take it." ???
Obviously, I'm not going to say that. I can listen to advice and do my best to change my bad habits, but I have pretty much made up my mind that I want my money, I want to move out of my dad's house, and I have reasons to be resentful towards him. Those things were never really up for discussion. I would be lying if I said my feelings towards my dad changed because of what some guys on a forum said to me.
Seriously, what am I supposed to say? How should I react so that you guys won't think I'm an asshole and a spoiled child?