Quote: (01-22-2012 03:19 PM)RandalGraves Wrote:
Quote: (01-22-2012 03:07 PM)speakeasy Wrote:
I agree. What's with all this talk of how wrong it is to pump and dump her, yet the same guys saying that are probably pumping and dumping girls all the time. So if that chic had two legs then it would magically be alright? What's the difference?
The difference is that a normal hot girl has prospects all the time, and it will not affect her that much to be pumped and dumped. This girl had a devastating, life-altering accident that has probably altered her own self-perception as a woman for the worse. Yes, she wants to have sex like any human, but don't assume she'll "bounce back" [...zing] like any normal pampered American girl after being hit and quit.
What they're saying is, don't be totally callous because her self esteem might be more fragile.
exactly its not so much of a "white night, beta" trying to be nice kind of deal its just a that you have to approach gaming her differently. its a human decency thing. could you live with yourself if you banged her for the novelty and joked about it with your friends? or should you bang her for the reasons you bang other girls ie. she gives you a boner, but be more upfront with the terms of the relationship. ie "i travel lots so i wont be around much you still cool with this" her: "i havent been laid in forever sexy mystery man please let me suck your dick"