[John Michael Kane]

(12-27-2016 09:07 PM)nek Wrote:  

The issue I always have to reconcile is... if there's a woman you have to constantly "handle" and "keep in check", is she worth keeping? What do you gain? I'm of the opinion that if a woman respects you, she won't put you in situations where you have to handle her very often, if at all. The chick in the OP mentioned that if her boyfriend would've backhanded her after the first time cheating, she would've fallen in line. But at that point, you have a girl that's cheated on you. What kind of victory is that?

You are correct that men ought to screen early and often for women who don't constantly shit test them. Still, even the nicest of women want to make sure you are a man. That's understandable. The really wife worthy woman tests you occasionally, but doesn't hit you when you fail, but encourages you to do better in a proactive way. I agree that there is no point in being in a LTR, much less marriage with a woman who needs constant hand.

That's part of the reason why super hot women are often NOT the best choice for a wife. They know they have "the goods" and a cute, but not high on herself chick is a better LTR option. Can you imagine dating some HB9 from Instagram with 2 million followers? She will shit test you all the time because she has millions of thirsty men to replace you. That's why a man MUST FILTER!