[Valentine]

You've got it in reverse - it's not monogamy that needs to be propped up, it's that polyamory needs to stop being propped up.

This is completely a matter of government policy, not female behaviour. They'll behave as they are allowed to behave.

Women can afford to be r-selected and choose bad boys because daddy government takes care of her.

If we instead had:

- Higher standard of evidence required for a sexual assault accusation
- Harsh punishments for false rape accusations
- No affirmative action
- Reduction in unnecessary government jobs
- No government sponsoring for universities
- Fair choice over schooling
- Government child support being contingent on both the couple being married and at least one person being employed
- Reduced punishment for men not paying child support
- Forced contraception for having multiple children out of marriage
- Fair divorce laws

Then women would suddenly find monogamy highly desirable once again. Their behaviour is simply being subsidised and enabled by the government.

If we add advanced male contraception like VasalGel into the mix as well then women will be begging for monogamy, as they have lost all power as sexual selectors.