Quote: (12-07-2016 10:01 PM)philosophical_recovery Wrote:
Quote: (12-07-2016 09:53 PM)Yeezy3 Wrote:
Update.
After she proposed switching our meet up from Wednesday to Friday, I countered with pushing it back til 9 instead of 6, due to plans I already had. Still waiting to hear confirmation on that. But something else just happened. We follow each other on snap chat and she just posted a story on snapchat of her and a guy playing scrabble out at a bar. Keep in mind tonight was the original night we had planned to meet for happy hour, before she suggested Friday. From my point of view it looks like she got a better offer for the tonight meet up with me.
My question is, how do I play this from here? Should I toss this one to the curb and move on, or if she gets back to me and wants to meet on Friday should I still continue as planned? Not gonna lie, I was kinda ticked when I saw the snapchat. But then again, I'm doing the same thing so can't be mad.
Guess what?
I don't have facebook anymore.
Or snapchat.
I don't know what the fuck a girl is doing unless she tells me. Usually they do anyway.
Unless it's something actually serious, I don't care.
Until I get the bang, I really don't care and it's a waste of my time to think about it.
I focus on keeping my head straight and going for the lay.
Everything else is a distraction that will just make you second guess, lose frame, and get out of the proper mindset.
You're already stepping down with weak frame, calling him a "better offer", to some other dude you don't know because of some chick playing scrabble with him.
Really?
You haven't banged her. Don't give a shit about what she's doing until that happens. If she acts shady after you bang, then cut her loose. But until then, she owes you absolutely nothing and you should expect absolutely nothing.
What I meant was a "better offer" in her eyes. Not that I think this dude is better than me. But I get what you're saying. You're right though, I need to go into this with one goal and mind, not give in to outside distractions. Need to build up my rolodex.