Out of the 600-700 approaches how many dates? Kiss closes? Bangs?
What was your approach strategy? What are your logistics?
I can relate to your story, I recently had a phase like this.
I was frustrated about life and dating just like you. Why do I have it harder than others? I went out at night and approached during the day but I was unable to be with the girls that I wanted. Yet I am more interesting than most guys my age. I can tell stories, I have interesting hobbies but I couldn't get what I wanted.
I was depressed and I had suicidal thoughts. I stopped gaming chicks altogether, stopped going to the gym and it only got worst... Until last week, I listened to the Gorilla Mindset for 5 minutes and everything made sense once again. YOU'RE NOT A VICTIM!
Here is what I try to do and maybe it can help you:
Stop comparing yourself to others. I know it's hard but there will always be people that have it easier and harder than you in life and there is nothing you can do about it. This one is the biggest motivation killer.
My little brother has fucked more girls than me. My friend sent me pictures of him banging a beautiful blonde. I am not jealous but it makes me feel like shit.
The truth is that I was a virgin before starting the game and 6 months later, I have kissed several girls and fucked 2. This is not a big achievement but it's a infinity % increase. My logistics suck and I can do better in terms of clothing and money in general.
Spirituality can help you with this frustration, meditation also I guess. It might seem odd for a number of people but this helped me a lot to reduce the frustration of life that I had in general. Believing in something can take weight off your shoulders.
Be thankful. Then try to improve yourself and be the best men.
Hope this helps!
What was your approach strategy? What are your logistics?
I can relate to your story, I recently had a phase like this.
I was frustrated about life and dating just like you. Why do I have it harder than others? I went out at night and approached during the day but I was unable to be with the girls that I wanted. Yet I am more interesting than most guys my age. I can tell stories, I have interesting hobbies but I couldn't get what I wanted.
I was depressed and I had suicidal thoughts. I stopped gaming chicks altogether, stopped going to the gym and it only got worst... Until last week, I listened to the Gorilla Mindset for 5 minutes and everything made sense once again. YOU'RE NOT A VICTIM!
Here is what I try to do and maybe it can help you:
Stop comparing yourself to others. I know it's hard but there will always be people that have it easier and harder than you in life and there is nothing you can do about it. This one is the biggest motivation killer.
My little brother has fucked more girls than me. My friend sent me pictures of him banging a beautiful blonde. I am not jealous but it makes me feel like shit.
The truth is that I was a virgin before starting the game and 6 months later, I have kissed several girls and fucked 2. This is not a big achievement but it's a infinity % increase. My logistics suck and I can do better in terms of clothing and money in general.
Spirituality can help you with this frustration, meditation also I guess. It might seem odd for a number of people but this helped me a lot to reduce the frustration of life that I had in general. Believing in something can take weight off your shoulders.
Be thankful. Then try to improve yourself and be the best men.
Hope this helps!