On the topic of ignoring girls who ignore us, I am curious to know if there is a limit before they lose interest.
An ongoing experience of mine: There is this girl I know and I run into her often. She was giving me the eyes. Eventually she approached me and we started talking. My game was worse at that time so I started by talking about about work/study and she ended the convo. But she was still talking to me on later occasions so I assumed she was into me. After a few days, I asked her for her number and said we should meet up for dinner (another mistake). She said she will think about it and later that day she replied "We should hang out as a group with other friends." I took it as a No and deleted her number and didnt reply. This was about a year ago.
I intentionally ignored her and only talked to her out of necessity when I am with my circle of friends. It took a lot of discipline but I learnt that even refusing to acknowledge a girl who ignored you will only help you. After a while she started giving the same IOIs again from a distance but always avoided coming close to me. She did not attempt to talk to me but there was all kinds of IOIs whenever she was in my vicinity. I was still under the impression that she was trying to make me into an orbiter.
A few more months passed and she started to come closer to me whenever I was in the vicinity. All this time, I did not talk or communicate with her in any way. I must say I did some of the self improvement things mentioned in this forum like exercise, watched 'red pill' shows, improved posture reduced the smiling and increased approaches on other girls and I guess it showed. Some more time passed and now she positions herself so that she can see me when I come to class and then smiles upon seeing me. At this point, I started to think, that I could give it a second shot. I am still torn given Roosh philosophy of never getting rejected twice but I was debating maybe asking her to hang out with me when I am going for groceries or something.
But, it's hard to catch her alone. She is always with her friends. My first question is that, given that this is still day game, approaching her when she is alone would yield the best chance but Would a girl who is interested detach, herself from her friends if she thinks that she wants to talk to you? I can't ask her to hang out when she is with friends but since she knows my schedule, would she isolate herself in the day which is easier to do? I am wondering if this can be used as a gauge to see if she is really interested.
Very recently, she suddenly switched her sitting position in class so that she has her back to me and her friend is facing me. And, I responded by ignoring her again. What does this mean? Is this some kind of test?
A very long ramble, but what do you guys suggest I do? I am still waiting for the opportunity to catch her alone and ask her out but what do you think of her actions? It wont be a reject if she refuses a second time because its just shopping but still I dont want to waste any more time on her.
An ongoing experience of mine: There is this girl I know and I run into her often. She was giving me the eyes. Eventually she approached me and we started talking. My game was worse at that time so I started by talking about about work/study and she ended the convo. But she was still talking to me on later occasions so I assumed she was into me. After a few days, I asked her for her number and said we should meet up for dinner (another mistake). She said she will think about it and later that day she replied "We should hang out as a group with other friends." I took it as a No and deleted her number and didnt reply. This was about a year ago.
I intentionally ignored her and only talked to her out of necessity when I am with my circle of friends. It took a lot of discipline but I learnt that even refusing to acknowledge a girl who ignored you will only help you. After a while she started giving the same IOIs again from a distance but always avoided coming close to me. She did not attempt to talk to me but there was all kinds of IOIs whenever she was in my vicinity. I was still under the impression that she was trying to make me into an orbiter.
A few more months passed and she started to come closer to me whenever I was in the vicinity. All this time, I did not talk or communicate with her in any way. I must say I did some of the self improvement things mentioned in this forum like exercise, watched 'red pill' shows, improved posture reduced the smiling and increased approaches on other girls and I guess it showed. Some more time passed and now she positions herself so that she can see me when I come to class and then smiles upon seeing me. At this point, I started to think, that I could give it a second shot. I am still torn given Roosh philosophy of never getting rejected twice but I was debating maybe asking her to hang out with me when I am going for groceries or something.
But, it's hard to catch her alone. She is always with her friends. My first question is that, given that this is still day game, approaching her when she is alone would yield the best chance but Would a girl who is interested detach, herself from her friends if she thinks that she wants to talk to you? I can't ask her to hang out when she is with friends but since she knows my schedule, would she isolate herself in the day which is easier to do? I am wondering if this can be used as a gauge to see if she is really interested.
Very recently, she suddenly switched her sitting position in class so that she has her back to me and her friend is facing me. And, I responded by ignoring her again. What does this mean? Is this some kind of test?
A very long ramble, but what do you guys suggest I do? I am still waiting for the opportunity to catch her alone and ask her out but what do you think of her actions? It wont be a reject if she refuses a second time because its just shopping but still I dont want to waste any more time on her.