I moved out to socal about 3 years ago from NYC, and I immediately noticed this flakiness epidemic.
having a girl flake is.... well not surprising, but grown ass men will come up with silly shit too.
Im in a well off area, so I've noticed the local girls will have an interest in the "east coast" thing, especially if you have an accent, however are so used to being pampered are not worth being around. As for guys 25-35 I have no idea what there excuse is.
I feel the best thing to do is, when it comes to women, don't waste your time if they live over 20' away, there is just to much talent to have to go any further. I find day game to be very effective, they are going to be grocery shopping, drinking coffee, walking their dog near there home, logistics make sense.
All the good friends I've made out here are from some where else, gym & out door activities accelerate this.
having a girl flake is.... well not surprising, but grown ass men will come up with silly shit too.
Im in a well off area, so I've noticed the local girls will have an interest in the "east coast" thing, especially if you have an accent, however are so used to being pampered are not worth being around. As for guys 25-35 I have no idea what there excuse is.
I feel the best thing to do is, when it comes to women, don't waste your time if they live over 20' away, there is just to much talent to have to go any further. I find day game to be very effective, they are going to be grocery shopping, drinking coffee, walking their dog near there home, logistics make sense.
All the good friends I've made out here are from some where else, gym & out door activities accelerate this.