Quote: (10-10-2016 09:44 PM)Mushroom Wrote:
You put yourself in a situation where there was practically zero chance of enjoyable banter between the two of you. Also, asking a random person where the apples are makes you seem foolish. it's just an unbelievable scenerio that someone can't find the produce department.
You would have been way better off talking to her about bread while she was waiting. Could have asked her what kind of bread she usually gets, what she recommends, what's healthiest, what she uses it for, does she cook often, is she a chef, etc...
Not bad ideas but don't you think that asking personal questions, before doing the opener, the ramble, and getting a personal question from her is essential - otherwise it will usually scare her off?
"The unexamined life is not worth living." - Socrates