Quote: (10-06-2016 09:09 PM)destiny Wrote:
Quote: (10-06-2016 09:03 PM)John_Galt Wrote:
Wait....I was re-reading your post.....have you ever stepped foot on Latvia or not? Have you MET this girl, in person before?
No, I never been there before and no I never met this girl in person neither.
Then you have no reason to be upset or angry. It was silly to fly to a country you've never been to to see a girl you've never met. The upside is that this is a great learning experience, and you can explore a new city and meet exotic women! I'm not always an optimist, but in this scenario, there is a lot to be positive about, truly.
Also, and I don't want to get your hopes up in saying this, but this is a possibility-----she could be making the boyfriend up entirely. Keep in mind: This is a woman who has a foreigner she's never met flying halfway across the world to see her. That's got to be at least a little intimidating. I'm not saying this is likely, but it is POSSIBLE. Either way, the fact that she at least likes you (even if it is as a friend) is positive. But a word of warning, make sure you meet her in a public place----just in case!
Given the new information you've provided, I would recommend meeting up with her during your trip. She could be a valuable source of information and a great guide to the city you're staying in, plus a possible translator, etc. But I would throw out all possibilities of romance so that you aren't needy and also so you don't get down about her not being romantic with you. It's really not a big deal, and you learned a very valuable lesson, so if you're upset, try to focus on that.