1. LTRs are generally pointless/not worth it unless you see the woman as a "mother of my children" candidate. The LTR should end immediately if the woman displays non-MOMC actions. Do not rationalize any bullshit behavior. Maintain your standards at all times and deal with violations swiftly.
2. Never live with a woman that isn't a "mother of my children" candidate. No amount of money you save is worth the eventual trade-offs and bullshit.
3. When a woman has checked out, she has checked out. When that burning desire is gone, it's gone. Accept it immediately and eject. Don't fight it. Assume she gives zero fucks about you and your welfare once she has checked out and protect yourself accordingly.
4. Relationship leverage is everything. If you live in the west, it's extremely difficult to maintain superior leverage over a chick. Everything is working against you: the culture, the courts, her friends, her family, the dating market etc. You must do everything possible from Day 1 to establish superior leverage and maintain it with a good buffer. It should feel like a privilege for her to be with you; not the other way around.
5. Once a woman senses you're afraid of losing her, you have lost leverage probably for forever.
6. Men and women are NOT equal. NEVER accept that paradigm and all that stems from it from anyone.
7. Women need to come to the table with their shit together attitude wise on day 1. Fuck this "I'm gonna train them" bullshit. You can slightly mold people but I'm not in the business of un-fucking 20+ years of poor parenting and militant feminist programming.
8. Those who want respect, give respect. As a man though, limit your generosity and overly nice behavior even with women who treat you good. She has a 100+ orbiters willing to move planets to give her whatever she wants; don't be them or associate being like them in any way. Again, you are doing her the favor showing her any attention.
9. Avoid women completely who are significant liabilities to your health, safety, or money flow. Victim complexes, history of drama with ex-BFs, history of police action against an ex or exes, mental disorders, self-destructive tendencies, losers who have a lot to gain from an unplanned baby, and generally most 30+ women. Don't even ONS these women. Treat your jizz like it's the keys to your bank account for the next 20 years. You wouldn't let anyone handle something so important, right?
10. Women who come from broken homes are generally broken people with only rare exceptions. Pay very close attention to how they interact and respect their parent(s)/family members, why so, and is their attitude justified. Avoid those that give respect to broken/fucked up parents and relatives unless you want a girl who will expect you to be loyal to her when she acts shitty towards you. Bottom line: a shitty upbringing usually leads to shitty women.
11. Never be afraid to walk away. Ever. "Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner"
2. Never live with a woman that isn't a "mother of my children" candidate. No amount of money you save is worth the eventual trade-offs and bullshit.
3. When a woman has checked out, she has checked out. When that burning desire is gone, it's gone. Accept it immediately and eject. Don't fight it. Assume she gives zero fucks about you and your welfare once she has checked out and protect yourself accordingly.
4. Relationship leverage is everything. If you live in the west, it's extremely difficult to maintain superior leverage over a chick. Everything is working against you: the culture, the courts, her friends, her family, the dating market etc. You must do everything possible from Day 1 to establish superior leverage and maintain it with a good buffer. It should feel like a privilege for her to be with you; not the other way around.
5. Once a woman senses you're afraid of losing her, you have lost leverage probably for forever.
6. Men and women are NOT equal. NEVER accept that paradigm and all that stems from it from anyone.
7. Women need to come to the table with their shit together attitude wise on day 1. Fuck this "I'm gonna train them" bullshit. You can slightly mold people but I'm not in the business of un-fucking 20+ years of poor parenting and militant feminist programming.
8. Those who want respect, give respect. As a man though, limit your generosity and overly nice behavior even with women who treat you good. She has a 100+ orbiters willing to move planets to give her whatever she wants; don't be them or associate being like them in any way. Again, you are doing her the favor showing her any attention.
9. Avoid women completely who are significant liabilities to your health, safety, or money flow. Victim complexes, history of drama with ex-BFs, history of police action against an ex or exes, mental disorders, self-destructive tendencies, losers who have a lot to gain from an unplanned baby, and generally most 30+ women. Don't even ONS these women. Treat your jizz like it's the keys to your bank account for the next 20 years. You wouldn't let anyone handle something so important, right?
10. Women who come from broken homes are generally broken people with only rare exceptions. Pay very close attention to how they interact and respect their parent(s)/family members, why so, and is their attitude justified. Avoid those that give respect to broken/fucked up parents and relatives unless you want a girl who will expect you to be loyal to her when she acts shitty towards you. Bottom line: a shitty upbringing usually leads to shitty women.
11. Never be afraid to walk away. Ever. "Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner"