Quote: (01-05-2012 11:21 PM)CharleyHorse Wrote:
The reason we have morals is because we fantasize about a perfect world where there is mutual respect among all human beings. We all want to believe that everyone can be happy and get what they want without having to fuck anyone else over. The truth is everyone manipulates people to different degrees and the more you manipulate other people to get what you want, the more you enjoy yourself (at the cost of others).
So you make a choice. You can be a moral person who refuses to fool other people because it isn't "right" or you can be the man at the top, holding all the strings and getting what you want. Most people are somewhere in between and depending on where you draw the line, you will always be sacrificing some amount of pleasure to do what is “right”.
Want to get the most out of life? Then drop your morals and make decisions purely by weighing the value of each choice you have in front of you. Sure, I'll fuck that guy's wife because even if he finds out he won't know it was me and there will be no consequences, but I'm going to leave my buddy's girl alone because I value his friendship over that one notch.
There are no excuses like "some other guy would have fucked his wife if I didn’t". Either you have morals or you don't, and having an excuse doesn’t change that. The immoral man is shamed because people fear being used by him, not because they truly believe in what is right. The people who sacrifice their morals for pleasure enjoy themselves the most and that’s why the douche bag always gets the girl over the nice guy.
In my view, the people who understand morality best are those who deep down inside know that morality often is not a sharp, bright line landscape..but a blurry, fuzzy world where things are always more complex and nuanced that they seem at first.
When you live in the real world, you have to compartmentalize. In business dealings I am always totally above board, I say what I will deliver, and I deliver it. My expense reports are never padded. I never "game" clients.
Married women? The ones I want to fuck? I simply don't give a rat's ass about their tiny-dick beta husbands. Whether I am in their wife's life or not, they are screwed already. Does that make me a douche? Well, if it makes me a douche is the eyes of some observers, I don't give a rat's ass about them either.
I've been married twice. I know what marriage hell is. I am not going back to that. The institution sucks, and anybody who says, "Ooooh...married women..they should be off limits..." are floating around in never never land.
I fuck em, I get what I want. They fuck me, they get what they want. The beta husband's problems are HIS problems, not mine. I own my own.