Quote: (01-04-2012 03:47 PM)Samseau Wrote:
Quote: (01-02-2012 09:07 PM)Enfant_Terrible Wrote:
Quote: (01-02-2012 04:20 PM)Samseau Wrote:
Quote: (12-31-2011 09:25 PM)MaxPayne Wrote:
What do you do for those girls who act like they're too cool to dance (ie. those pretend that they're having a blast dancing with their girlfriends)? Do you ignore or do you have some strategy in mind?
I make fun of them. Here's an example.
"Oh you guys are too cool to dance?"
Then I might do a quick solo move and hold my hand back out.
If they still act bitchy, which they probably will, I hold my hand up to their face with the "halt" motion as if I'm the one rejecting them. I shout, "Lame!" Then I walk.
Thank you, I experience this a lot on the dancefloor.
I've been doing the hand stop sign whenever girls reject me for a dance, but now I'll feel even more better by giving them the extra sting of making fun of them.
Bitches.
Don't use my lines or moves with a bitter attitude (not saying you have one, but I'm not sure).
When I hold up my hand to them, more often than not, I'm smiling. At the very least, I'm giving off a smirk. After all, I'm acting like I'm better than them. You're teasing them, and I take pleasure in teasing cute girls.
When I say, "Lame!", my expression is mostly neutral, and I feel slightly disappointed that these girls missed out on a fun time with me.
And I don't always do these things - a lot of the time, if I feel the girl is just weird or not worth it, I just walk away. That's all you have to do. Go dance somewhere else and ignore her.
I always carry a carefree, relaxed, and fun vibe when I'm out. It comes naturally to me as I dance. I smile, I laugh, I have a damn good time. That's why I do it. When I started to get good in dance venues, what I did was apply "The Vibe" section of Bang to the dance floor.
If you're bitter or angry towards women, I think you'll have poor dance floor game since your dance is mostly an expression of your feelings. So don't worry about impressing these girls or making them feel anything. Keep in your own zone and enjoy yourself. Relax and don't give a fuck, go for the kiss when she's into you.
Yeah you're right Samseau, that post was written in anger with my NYE dance floor rejections fresh in mind. I did have fun that night dancing with all sorts of ladies and do enjoy dancing even without a partner.
It's just that I have lingering bitterness on the inside coming from all sorts of frustrations with women over the years but I do fight against it.
I guess I'm on the "anger stage" if there's such a thing when you go through learning to be a player.