Quote: (09-03-2016 11:03 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Why is RVF so anti-game on the game board?
It boggles my mind. Most of these problems have been looked at and solved.
I've got many friends who are naturally disinclined towards "using game" because they look at it the same way a woman does; they don't want to "feel" a certain way, they don't want to actively manipulate someone (but they don't realize they do it subconsciously!).
Really, why do we do anything we do with people? It's all manipulation. It can be beneficial or not. It does not matter. You can think through it, or fail when you try to use your instincts alone (and just be "natural, girls will like it, I'm just filtering by ones who match with me").
Bullshit. That's always a crutch for self-esteem ("I don't deserve the hot girls") and confidence ("I'm afraid to talk to the hot girls"). Excuses are made such as them being bitchy, etc. Nah, it's a matter of using the brain we were given and applying it towards beneficial results. Sitting back and trying to go "natural" is just a guy not wanting to accept what the real world looks like. You don't get ahead that way.
Anyways, rant aside - brilliant comments and thoughts and strategies. Learned from that there.