not much to report on last night.
Was a quiet night in town.
At one point there were 2 girls standing at a table in a bar. My friend recognised them from work, although he's basically never spoken to them. I told him we should go and speak with them.
I went over to them with 60's method in mind.
I said hello, and then I introduced myself to one of them.
I took her hand, and then I held onto it for a long time like 60 said to do.
After about 20 seconds she pulled it away.
I asked her what she'd been doing that night and stuff, all whilst holding strong eye contact.
She was relatively friendly which is kind of rare for me, but I got the impression that she felt like I was trying to pick her up......which i obviously was! But some people say that that's 'wrong'. You should be 'invisible'. But others say you need to showclear intent!? I dunno.
I gave her some compliments and stuff, and at one point she mentioned going somewhere and I said ''you should take me with you'' whilst smiling.
She said ''why would you want to go with me?''
I said ''Because I like you!''
Then she said ''I've got a boyfriend'' and from that point I obviously kind of gave up, but just carried on trying to be flirty for the sake of practice.
The other girl who looked like Cara Delevigne (hot) was looking at her phone the whole time.
I moved my attention to her and asked her why she was glued to her phone, and tried to tease her about being on tinder the whole time.
She was less receptive than the other girl and told me she had a boyfriend.
Then we went to get a cab and there was a hot girl with her shoes in her hand. I probably need to find a good line for that situation, as i keep seeing it!
Anyway, I saw a vid yesterday where a guy alwaya opens with what he sees. So, he sees a girl in a yelllow dress and walks over to her and says ''Girl in the yellow dress!! What's up'' kind of thing.
So since I couldn't think of anything clever, I opened with ''Girl with no shoes on! What's up?''
Anyway, this girl was 100% not interested and was kind of rude. much more typical reaction. I'm starting to think it's the area I live in! I live in a fairly 'chavy' area. (not sure if the US guys here will know what that means, though.)
So she replied ''Who are you? What do you want?!!''
I was like ''I'm just making conversation''
And then she said ''I've got a boyfriend, and then she put her hand out and grabbed her friends wrist, and her friend then kind of pulled her away from me''
That was it.
might be going out to a bbq today where hopefully there'll be some new girls to approach!
Was a quiet night in town.
At one point there were 2 girls standing at a table in a bar. My friend recognised them from work, although he's basically never spoken to them. I told him we should go and speak with them.
I went over to them with 60's method in mind.
I said hello, and then I introduced myself to one of them.
I took her hand, and then I held onto it for a long time like 60 said to do.
After about 20 seconds she pulled it away.
I asked her what she'd been doing that night and stuff, all whilst holding strong eye contact.
She was relatively friendly which is kind of rare for me, but I got the impression that she felt like I was trying to pick her up......which i obviously was! But some people say that that's 'wrong'. You should be 'invisible'. But others say you need to showclear intent!? I dunno.
I gave her some compliments and stuff, and at one point she mentioned going somewhere and I said ''you should take me with you'' whilst smiling.
She said ''why would you want to go with me?''
I said ''Because I like you!''
Then she said ''I've got a boyfriend'' and from that point I obviously kind of gave up, but just carried on trying to be flirty for the sake of practice.
The other girl who looked like Cara Delevigne (hot) was looking at her phone the whole time.
I moved my attention to her and asked her why she was glued to her phone, and tried to tease her about being on tinder the whole time.
She was less receptive than the other girl and told me she had a boyfriend.
Then we went to get a cab and there was a hot girl with her shoes in her hand. I probably need to find a good line for that situation, as i keep seeing it!
Anyway, I saw a vid yesterday where a guy alwaya opens with what he sees. So, he sees a girl in a yelllow dress and walks over to her and says ''Girl in the yellow dress!! What's up'' kind of thing.
So since I couldn't think of anything clever, I opened with ''Girl with no shoes on! What's up?''
Anyway, this girl was 100% not interested and was kind of rude. much more typical reaction. I'm starting to think it's the area I live in! I live in a fairly 'chavy' area. (not sure if the US guys here will know what that means, though.)
So she replied ''Who are you? What do you want?!!''
I was like ''I'm just making conversation''
And then she said ''I've got a boyfriend, and then she put her hand out and grabbed her friends wrist, and her friend then kind of pulled her away from me''
That was it.
might be going out to a bbq today where hopefully there'll be some new girls to approach!