Quote: (08-18-2016 01:24 AM)Suits Wrote:
Rule #6: Always assume that he/she will never follow through with any of his/her big plans in China.
Rule #7: If he/she uses the word "guanxi" even once, never speak to him/her again.
Rule #8: Assume that she is in a sexual drought and is consistently ignored by men, but won't admit it or begin dating men who aren't her superior by at least two points.
Rule #9: Assume that whatever reason(s) she gives for leaving (with two years of arriving) are complete lies and she's leaving because she realizes that she doesn't stand a chance of marrying up if she stays in China.
I've always suspected they channel their emotions from the sexual drought and lack of meaningful attention into becoming vegetarian. They'll go on about how the food is here is so unhealthy and this is a great opportunity to practice a healthy lifestyle blah blah blah, which includes being vegan or vegetarian. I just think it is related to they aren't getting laid and male attention on wechat. I've worked with about 10 american women since I've been here. Three are dating a chinese man, one of them is pregnant and getting married. They eat meat. Another, who has since moved back home, ate meat. But she was a pig and would fuck any western guy that gave her a glance. The rest? One just moved here, not sure about her social life yet. But the others all have become vegetarians since coming to china and none of them get laid. This one girl, just came from beijing. Once she arrived to shenzhen, i added her on wechat and offered to take her to dinner with my girlfriend and I which she accepted. I then looked for a couple seconds at her picture again. Wrote back asking "you're vegetarian right?" She's comes back with "OMG how did you know?" I answer, "I just do."