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What i found out, i do not like to start with compliments, because im always the mysterious guy that doesnt give a sh*t. giving her compliments makes her feel like i care.
A compliment suggesting you find her attractive is important to get your intention out there. I typically say "just saw you, thought you looked really nice...". After this, you are spot on in that you should take up a non-chalant vibe. The most effective way I have found for myself is to make comment which is neither a neg nor a compliment, but is a bit cheeky. Example: "your tan hair reminded me of a lioness", "the clip clop of your heels made me think a horse was coming"... I've found animals work quite well 95% of the time. The hardest part is to play along with that remark for a minute or two. I still have a lot of trouble with this, but after doing a few approaches and enough practice, verbally bamboozling about a random topic gets easier. Worst case, comment on where you think she is from and talk about what you think of that country's culture, etc...