Quote: (07-10-2016 02:56 AM)donn Wrote:
This pattern happens to many people I know through many years, may be it's just part of the game and it supposed to be like that.
So here is a situation, a couple are in LTR for many years.
Suddenly she wanted to leave the guy because of some disagreements, but he knows she likes someone else, may be she thought her bf is not good enough or gave her beta vibes.
Soon after, she changes her mind and they get back together. Everything is fine for a long time, but he will keep thinking if it was the right choice. Is it? should he dump her even after they keep dating years after the break up?
I can't understand the guys that decide to get married these days, but may be it's just me.
I think that it is a lot easier to discuss an issue if you are having the issue in some kind of context, rather than framing the issue in an apparent abstract and theoretical sense.
It is not a game if you are in a relationship and then something happens where you break up and then decide to get back together, and some of the answer depends upon the details regarding why you were in the relationship in the first place and why you decided to get back together.
Are you personally experiencing this issue, or do you merely want to discuss the theory of the issue?