Logical Reasons Not To Marry
12-22-2011, 10:59 AM
I understand why some people are antagonistic towards marriage when all you see around you are failed marriages. I sympathize with some of these statements.
Your post describes pretty thoughtless and controlling women. I know plenty of those exist. But I would like to think that there are nurturing women out there who would also make good life-long partners.
There's definitely a sense of comfort that comes from a partner that I don't think you can get anywhere else. A good wife is like a good life-long friend, plus some, if it's done right. Unfortunately, we live in a "me society" and people don't very well understand the concept of putting others before self.
Another thought I had touches on your ideas of monotony. This might be a crazy thought but do you think that some women are opening to experiencing "variety" with you? Surely women are just as concerned with getting bored in bed as we are. I'm sure that given a good wife you can think of ways to diversify things. Hell, some people are cool wife-swapping and group sex from time to time just to get things moving again. Doesn't sound like a bad idea.
Honestly, I am looking forward to getting married. I do have exceptional standards for the girl I'll be committing to however, something that I think a lot of people lack. I think the key is openness, honesty, and genuine respect for each other. If you can't talk to each other about anything and if you don't truly love each other, then there is no sense in both of you making a life-long commitment.
Your post describes pretty thoughtless and controlling women. I know plenty of those exist. But I would like to think that there are nurturing women out there who would also make good life-long partners.
There's definitely a sense of comfort that comes from a partner that I don't think you can get anywhere else. A good wife is like a good life-long friend, plus some, if it's done right. Unfortunately, we live in a "me society" and people don't very well understand the concept of putting others before self.
Another thought I had touches on your ideas of monotony. This might be a crazy thought but do you think that some women are opening to experiencing "variety" with you? Surely women are just as concerned with getting bored in bed as we are. I'm sure that given a good wife you can think of ways to diversify things. Hell, some people are cool wife-swapping and group sex from time to time just to get things moving again. Doesn't sound like a bad idea.
Honestly, I am looking forward to getting married. I do have exceptional standards for the girl I'll be committing to however, something that I think a lot of people lack. I think the key is openness, honesty, and genuine respect for each other. If you can't talk to each other about anything and if you don't truly love each other, then there is no sense in both of you making a life-long commitment.