Think big, man.
I would've said - "Listen, if I am coming all the way out there, I'm gonna need a place to crash. I hear Poles are famous for their hospitality" or something less douchey than that![[Image: biggrin.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/biggrin.gif)
if she says "fuck you" or denies you her couch, then she's the one who looks bad. And ALL you need is a couch. If a girl even says yes to that she's definitely thinking about fucking you.
Next time, say something where you let her know it's a hassle, but if she's willing to help you, you'll come through for her. Quid pro quo, negotiation skills 101, buddy.
Seems like you went for lose/lose.
I would've said - "Listen, if I am coming all the way out there, I'm gonna need a place to crash. I hear Poles are famous for their hospitality" or something less douchey than that
if she says "fuck you" or denies you her couch, then she's the one who looks bad. And ALL you need is a couch. If a girl even says yes to that she's definitely thinking about fucking you.
Next time, say something where you let her know it's a hassle, but if she's willing to help you, you'll come through for her. Quid pro quo, negotiation skills 101, buddy.
Seems like you went for lose/lose.
A year from now you'll wish you started today