Quote: (12-20-2011 04:35 AM)Iceinthewater Wrote:
Quote: (12-20-2011 03:46 AM)Batata Wrote:
"Learning game" from somebody is inherently beta. That's something guys need to understand. When you're having somebody teach you how to hook up with women, you've already submitted your will to somebody else's authority.
My advice: learn the lore, internalize the concepts by trying them out, then do you own thing. If you've got: "well, this is what XXX PUA trainer said works" in the back of your head...
you're already preoccupied with another man's thoughts and you cannot be subconsciously alpha.
Picup literature does not emphasize self-development enough.
this is the goal with everything you do. but if you wanted to be a better salesman, wouldn't you find a book or mentor? ultimately you want to be your own man, and sometimes that requires another person to point out how you are NOT being your own man.
you're right bro - I didn't get good until I stopped reading everything and listening to everyone. I went out and tried a lot of crazy shit and made a ton of mistakes.
I'm not knocking seeking guidance, just commenting on things that need to be done to make progress. Eventually, you need to take off the training wheels.